Short answer is no.
The kin house belongs to the kin and whoever is the kin leader is the one that controls the kin house. If you create a kin and buy a kin house, you as te kin leader control it. If someone else becomes the kin leader then they will control it. For kin houses the owner is the kinship, so whoever is the kin leader is the one that controls the kin house. If the kinship disbands or is dissolved the kin house goes back on the market since the "owner" (the kinship) no longer exists.
If you want to keep the kin house then you have to keep the kinship active and the kin house paid for. Also, the since the kin house is owned by the kinship and not the character, you can get a standard/deluxe house plus a kin house for any kinship you are the leader for. If you have 10 characters on the account, each character can (theoretically) be a kin leader and control a kin house. Which means (in this example) 10 kin houses plus your standard/deluxe house. This is for each server as well.
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