Well, I do think finding the right kin would be beneficial to you
There are all kinds, and sometimes our kin, for example, will throw an impromptu group together to help someone out, or just chatter away while soloing.
What I do, myself, is have a bunch of alts, and non-leveling related fun things to do. I love exploration, and meandering to see what little items from Tolkein's world I run into.
So, when I'm bored doing one thing, I switch off to another. While I do have one character at level cap, the others range all over the place (by design, I want to be able to give on level help when kinnies need it, so try to cover a wide range of levels).
If you are a lover of the books, then maybe focus on the epics for a bit-bring your character's story nearer the main fellowship?
Like music? Explore the music system. It won't level you up, but it is a unique game system to Lotro, and it's amazing what I've seen some folks do with it.
There's no race to endgame, and lots of fun to be had on the way. I hope you find the key to enjoying the game for you.
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