First of all congratulations on your Daughter getting to 85, always a nice achievement.
Second though, your daughter's need to learn about grouping now that she is 85 makes me a little sad. It used to be that group content was a natural part of leveling up and the majority of people hitting the level cap would have a fair idea of how to function in a group, not just as their class but generally as a player. The sad part about it is that there is much group content still there throughout the whole game but the leveling process has now been altered so that none of it is necessary anymore. Given multiple ways of doing something, people will general take the easier path. And finding pugs for below level cap content is difficult.
I don't want to sound like this is a slight on the parenting skills of the OP but i do feel that if/when my own children are a bit older and want to play this game that i will use my kin and network of other friends to make sure that we do group content all throughout the game so that they have the same group skills i had when i first hit level cap. I know this might be difficult if both of you are new but it is possible if you are in a good kin, indeed you say that you are. It is just sad that Turbine no longer does anything to encourage people to learn this sort of thing before the hit the 'endgame'.
Anyway, well done and i wish you both luck and hope you enjoy grouping and do well in it.
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