Best source I could find, online, that actually had sources labeled out:
For specific characters themselves, like Glorfindel and Thranduil (both blonde) I recommend looking to character bios and the like online if you are looking to save time and not flip through the books.
I once had a link that listed the hair/eye colors of all characters and quoted passages for proof but unfortunately I cannot seem to find this link at the moment.
Edit: Never mind! Found it, thank you WayBack Machine! Links on the page work as well, which is very nice.
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