Are you certain that you logged on to Crickhollow and not another server? I know I made that mistake once, and hopefully this is the case for you. If your account was hacked they should be able to recover the character for you, but this could take a few days.
I hope it all turns out well for you in the end! Good luck with getting your character back, and again, best of luck in your kinship search.
Rosalie from Crickhollow's Second Breakfast
Community events reporter at http://lotroplayers.com
Visit http://secondbreakfast.guildlaunch.com & http://crickhollowmusic.guildlaunch.com
Second Breakfast's weekly events--Fridays 9pm: Bread & Jam at the Prancing Pony
Saturdays 1pm: Breakfast Club plays at Bree-town's South Gate
Saturdays 4:30pm: Dulcet Tones play at the fountain in front of the Pony
Sundays at 11am and Mondays at 11pm: Elevenses at the Bird & Baby
Find out about the kinships of Crickhollow at crickhollowkins.tumblr.com