Re: Help selecting a kinship
Most "Mature" kins will have a kin shout in Regional Channels when they are recruiting. So it's a good idea to keep an eye out for a few.
Most players don't take kindly to blind invites, so if somebody actually sends you a tell asking if you want to join x or y kinship, be polite and chat back.
Ask what their goal is, what their gameplay is and other kin related stuff
You could also put a shout out in Regional yourself. Something along the lines of <level><class> looking for casual kinship. Then talk to any responders
As for being an "older gamer" ... you'll find a lot more players of the same age here in Lotro, probably even older
We have a 64 yr old in our kin. And nobody argues with her, or they dont get healed
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