The big main thing that's stopped me, a lot of friends and other people going to Withywindle is Zrinko.
He, the player, himself has been so boastful and ignorant that people actual avoid your server.
I don't mean to sound like I'm just getting at your server but it's true.
Apart from him your server is great and although it could do with a few more people it's quiet and nice
Greetings from Gilrain.