No-freeping rule can't be seen as black and white. There's a grey area as well. It's not like when you go freeping once or twice you get a kick. It was meant to avoid consistent freeping in the Ettens.
If you play freep too often, Angbands isn't a suitable tribe for you any more. Besides, who cares about all this "drama"? It's not a big deal... Over the years we have had countless of players joining and leaving Angbands. Don't make such a drama about it, who cares. He's just one player out of the many.