I'd like to do this quest with my captain (level 42 now) and I've pretty much given up on in-game LFF for this. I only ever got one response, and that guy has long since outleveled the quest now. Not sure posting on the forums will work any better, but it's worth a try. How about trying to meet at Tinnudir at 1pm Pacific time Sunday afternoon (Feb. 6th)?
If there are obscure and frustrating gimmicks to ToE, advice would be welcome. Obviously I've never done it before - I just want to finish this long quest line and see Narsil reforged!